The divorce process in Virginia can be broken down into the following five steps:
Before a request for divorce can be filed in Virginia, there must be one or more legal grounds for divorce.
Virginia Code § 20-91 lists the following grounds for divorce:
Virginia permits and favors the settlement of disputes through agreements. 1 Married couples have the ability to settle all issues related to their marriage at the time they separate through a separation agreement (also referred to as a Property Settlement Agreement or Marital Settlement Agreement). 2 The terms of the separation agreement may be made a part of the Final Decree of Divorce, and the Judge cannot order terms that are inconsistent with the parties’ agreement in matters related to property and debts, spousal support, and attorney’s fees. 3 Some of the issues that can be addressed in a separation agreement include:
Although listed as step two of the divorce process, the negotiation of a separation agreement can occur at any time, including prior to the filing of the divorce in court, after the filing of the divorce, and even during the pendency of an appeal. 4 Negotiating a separation agreement is not a required step that must be completed prior to filing for divorce, except in the case of a no-fault divorce based on a six-month separation. However, negotiating a separation agreement is often recommended. A separation agreement allows the parties to have control over the outcome of their case as opposed to putting their life in the hands of a judge who only gets to see a brief snapshot of their lives and circumstances. Additional benefits include potential significant savings in attorney’s fees and preventing or ending the bitter conflict and mudslinging that often accompany an all-out court battle. When children are involved, an agreement can help keep them out of the court process, which can reduce the negative effects that separation and divorce likely will have on them.
It is not always possible to reach an agreement immediately. One side may intentionally seek to delay the process if it would force them to have to pay support sooner. If immediate support is needed and the other party is not cooperating, the best strategy may be to table negotiations and file for support right away. Virginia courts are limited to awarding support back to the date of the filing of an initial petition so a delay in filing can result in a financial loss if the other side is not willing to voluntarily pay support. 5 Additionally, filing a court action may suddenly motivate an otherwise uncooperative party to engage in negotiations since an unpredictable court decision is looming.
Another reason to temporarily forego negotiation in favor of court action involves the discovery of assets and income. If one spouse is in the dark about the marital finances, and the other spouse refuses to disclose all of his assets and income, getting into court as soon as possible may be the best strategy to acquire this information and protect against the potential concealment and disposal of assets. Court litigation affords the parties the ability to compel disclosures of financial and other information relevant to the divorce through a process called discovery. A court order also can be put in place that forbids the parties from disposing marital assets. 6 After discovery is completed, it is almost always a good idea to attempt settlement. Failure to make a good faith attempt to settle can be weighed by the court in awarding attorney’s fees. 7
There is a difference between filing for divorce and finalizing a divorce. Filing for divorce just starts the court process. To end the process, a judge must sign a Final Decree of Divorce. Below is a comparison of the waiting periods that apply to each ground of divorce.
Adultery, Sodomy, Buggery | no waiting period to file and finalize |
Cruelty | -no waiting period to file for a legal separation (called a divorce from bed and board) |
-one year to file and finalize if there are no minor children and no separation agreement
The court process for a Virginia divorce begins with the filing of a divorce complaint in a Virginia circuit court. The complaint is the initial court document that asks the court to grant a divorce and decide the other issues relevant to the divorce such as the equitable distribution of marital property and debts, spousal support, child support, child custody and visitation, and payment of attorney’s fees. The court must have power over the parties (called personal jurisdiction) and power over the type of case (called subject matter jurisdiction) for the divorce to proceed to conclusion. Common bases for jurisdiction over the parties include that both parties live in Virginia or one party lives in Virginia and the couple maintained a matrimonial domicile in Virginia at the time of their separation. 10 In order for a Virginia court to have the power to grant the divorce, the complaint must state a valid ground for divorce and provide that at least one of the parties was at the time of filing of the divorce and within at least 6 months preceding the filing an actual bona fide resident and domiciliary of Virginia. 11
After the complaint is filed, the other party (called the defendant) must be notified of the divorce. This can be accomplished by having a sheriff or private individual authorized to serve legal documents (called a private process server) deliver the complaint and a summons to the other party. Under Virginia Code § 8.01-296, the process server must first attempt to put the summons and complaint in the hands of the defendant. This is called personal service. If the defendant is not available, the process server can leave the summons and complaint with another family member age 16 or older that lives full-time at the defendant’s residence. If no family member is available, the summons and complaint can be posted on the front door of the defendant’s residence. These methods are referred to as substituted service.
If the location of the defendant cannot be determined after due diligence, service by publication can be used. Service by publication generally involves the court issuing an order of publication that includes the details of the case and a formal demand for the defendant to appear in court on a date no sooner than 50 days after entry of the order of publication. The order of publication typically is published in a local newspaper for four successive weeks and is posted at the front door of the courthouse and mailed to the last known post office address of the defendant. 12 Service by publication is a last resort that costs additional money and limits the power of the court. The court only has in rem jurisdiction, which means the court can grant a divorce but cannot determine personal obligations such as payment of child and spousal support. 13 This is true even if a property settlement exists that addresses support, although the contract itself may be independently enforceable. 14 Virginia Code sections 8.01-320 and 20-104 through 20-105 discuss the service of process requirements for nonresidents of Virginia.
A defendant may waive formal service of process by signing a statement under oath in front of a notary public or clerk that he or she agrees to waive process. 15 Additionally, a defendant may waive formal service of process by making a general appearance in the case, such as by filing an answer to the complaint or otherwise engaging in conduct related to adjudicating the merits of the case. 16 Waiving formal service of process is common when the parties have already executed a separation agreement prior to the filing of the complaint. If a separation agreement already exists, the divorce can be finalized as described in Step 5 of this guide after formal service of process occurs or is waived.
After the summons and complaint is served on the defendant, the defendant must respond to the complaint by filing an answer or other legally recognized response within 21 days. 17
The most common way for a defendant to respond to the complaint is by filing an answer. The answer admits or denies each numbered paragraph in the complaint. A general denial of the allegations in the complaint is not permitted. 18 If any affirmative defenses exist, they should be pled along with the answer. An affirmative defense is a defense that, if proven, constitutes an absolute bar to the plaintiff’s claim. 19 Examples in the divorce context include justification for leaving as a defense to a desertion claim, 20 forgiveness (also called condonation) of a spouse’s alleged adultery through voluntary sexual intercourse after knowledge of the adultery, 21 and that more than five years has elapsed since an alleged act of adultery making the claim time barred under the statute of limitations. 22
If the plaintiff has not properly stated a claim upon which relief can be granted, a demurrer (basically a motion to dismiss) can be filed. 23 A demurrer in a divorce case states that even if all the facts in the complaint are assumed to be true, the facts are not enough to establish the ground of divorce. For instance, If a complaint alleges a single act of cruelty and the act is not “severe and atrocious as to endanger life” nor “indicates an intention to do serious bodily harm or causes reasonable apprehension of serious danger in the future” nor the “circumstances show that the acts are likely to be repeated” the complaint is insufficient to establish a cruelty ground of divorce under Virginia law and a demurrer would be an appropriate response to the complaint. 24
A motion to dismiss for lack of personal jurisdiction can be filed if the defendant does not reside in Virginia, did not reside in Virginia when the ground for divorce arose, did not live with the plaintiff in Virginia at the time of the parties’ separation, never executed an agreement to pay spousal support or child support in Virginia, never conceived or fathered a child in Virginia, never was ordered to pay child support or spousal support by a Virginia court, and otherwise lacks minimum contacts with Virginia as detailed in Virginia Code § 8.01-328.1. Care must be taken not to address the merits of the case when the objection to personal jurisdiction is made or else the objection will be waived. 25
If the defendant also wishes to be divorced and wants to be in court on his or her own divorce filing, it is typically wise for the defendant to file his or her own divorce action called a counterclaim at the time a responsive pleading is filed if the defendant can establish a ground of divorce at that time. The counterclaim generally must be filed within 21 days of service of the complaint. 26
Rule 4 of the Rules of the Supreme Court of Virginia provides certain tools that parties may use to obtain information relevant to issues in the case, including Interrogatories, Request for Production of Documents, Requests for Admission, Subpoenas Duces Tecum, Physical or Mental Examinations, Vocational Evaluations, and Depositions.
The court process for a divorce can take many months or even longer than a year in some instances. However, some issues can be decided on a temporary basis prior to the trial. A motion for temporary (pendente lite) relief can be filed at the outset of the case; however, some degree of discovery is often desired prior to having a pendente lite hearing, especially when support is requested and income information has not been voluntarily shared. Court decisions made at the pendente lite hearing only last until the final divorce order is made. A different order can be made as part of the court’s final ruling at the divorce trial. In the case of a support order, the final court order can be applied retroactively, which can result in the overpayment of support or a support arrearage. 59 For instance, if a court awarded $1000 a month in spousal support at the time of the pendente lite hearing and then changed the award at the time of trial to $500 a month dating back to the pendente lite hearing, the person paying support would have overpaid support by $500 each month during the case and would be entitled to be paid back for the overpayment.
The pendente lite hearing is not meant to be a full trial. Courts in the Hampton Roads area typically only permit between 30 minutes to two hours for the pendente lite hearing. This means that there is not enough time to put forth all relevant evidence and witnesses, and if the motion is argued at the beginning of the case, the evidence likely has not yet been developed through the discovery process. The purpose of the pendente lite hearing is to preserve the status quo of the parties until the divorce if finalized. 60 It does not determine the rights of parties to property. The pendente lite order is not final and cannot be appealed. 61 Virginia Code § 20-103 provides the authority to make temporary orders, and allows courts to do the following:
Experts are commonly used to assist judges in understanding complex issues that a layperson does not have the specialized knowledge needed to express reliable opinions about. Examples include the use a of a real estate appraiser to attest to the fair market value of the marital residence, a vocational rehabilitation expert to discuss a party’s earning potential in a spousal support case, a clinical psychologist to testify about a party’s mental health or parental fitness in a custody dispute, a forensic accountant to analyze complex financial records to determine a person’s income and property holdings and trace transfers of marital and separate property, and a certified valuation analyst to testify about the fair market value of a business. If the judge has issued a scheduling order, the scheduling order likely will require the parties to disclose the experts they intend to use at trial ahead of time, typically 60-90 days prior to trial.
Many courts in Virginia, including several courts in the Hampton Roads area, require that the parties participate in a Judicial Settlement Conference before the case is allowed to proceed to trial. The Judicial Settlement Conference is a form of mediation. A retired judge not affiliated with the case assists the parties in reaching a settlement agreement. There is no fee imposed on the parties for the use of the retired Judge. If the parties prefer, they can hire a private mediator at their own cost and ask the court to waive their participation in the Judicial Settlement Conference. For additional details see https://www.vacourts.gov/courtadmin/aoc/djs/programs/jsc/home.html.
Many Virginia courts will issue a scheduling order that lists actions that must be taken by the parties by certain dates. Under a typical scheduling order, the parties must identify all witnesses and exhibits they intend to use at trial within 15 days of the trial.
Certain motions can be made and argued prior to trial. These include a motion in limine, a motion for alternate valuation date, a motion to bifurcate the trial, and a motion to continue the trial.
Many Virginia courts require that a pretrial conference be scheduled for a contested divorce case within a few weeks of the trial. The purpose of the pretrial conference is to discuss the issues that will be addressed at trial, whether any stipulations of facts or documents have been reached that can eliminate the need for formal proof and help streamline the trial (including an agreement on the value of assets), who will be responsible for having a court reporter to transcribe the proceeding, and the necessity for any pretrial amendment of pleadings, or other pretrial relief. 67 Around the time of the pretrial conference, the parties may be required to submit certain disclosures, such as child support guidelines under Virginia Code § 20-108.2, income and expense statements in spousal support cases, proffers of facts related to the statutory factors used in determining the best interests of children in custody and visitation disputes under Virginia Code § 20-124.3, the division of marital assets and liabilities under Virginia Code § 20-107.3(E), and post-divorce spousal support under Virginia Code § 20-107.1.
The trial is the final court hearing in which a Judge hears evidence related to the grounds of divorce, the division of marital property and debts, and any other issues raised in the pleadings that are relevant to the divorce. The trial could be a single day or several days depending on the complexity of the case and the amount of evidence to be presented. Each side is given the chance to make an opening statement regarding the evidence that will be presented and the particular relief being requested pertaining to each issue. The plaintiff’s counsel gets to present evidence first through direct examination, which can take the form of witness testimony and documents (such as bank statements, tax returns, paystubs, retirement documents, etc.) Objections to any questions or documents should be raised contemporaneously to preserve the objections for appeal. 68 After each witness testifies, the defendant’s counsel gets the chance to ask the witness leading questions through a process called cross examination. Questions on cross-examination are limited to the scope of the direct examination, meaning that counsel cannot ask questions about topics that were not initially raised. 69 Cross-examination can expose inaccuracies in witness testimony, challenge the credibility of witnesses, and establish a desired narrative. The plaintiff then gets to ask follow up questions through a process called re-direct examination. After the plaintiff finishes his or her case, the defendant gets to put on evidence and the same process occurs. After the defendant concludes his or her case, the plaintiff has the opportunity to challenge the defendant’s case with new evidence through a process called rebuttal. Finally, each side is given the chance to make a closing argument on how the judge should rule on each issue based on the evidence presented. 70
In non-complex divorce cases with few issues, the judge may issue a ruling on the same day as the closing statements. For more complex cases, the judge may ask the parties to provide the court with a copy of the transcript taken by the court reporter. The judge then reviews the transcripts and issues an opinion letter describing his rulings. The parties can attempt to challenge the rulings through post-trial motions. A final decree of divorce is then prepared and signed by the judge. The final decree of divorce is the final order that grants the divorce and specifies how marital property and debts are divided, and if applicable, determines custody and visitation arrangements, payment of child and spousal support, and any approved reimbursement of attorney’s fees and costs. In general, the circuit court loses jurisdiction to make changes to the final decree of divorce after 21 days from the date the judge signs the final decree. 71 Thereafter, corrections can only be sought through a timely filed appeal unless a special exception exists. 72
Once the final decree of divorce is entered by the circuit court, a party may file an appeal to the Court of Appeals of Virginia by filing a Notice of Appeal within 30 days of the date of entry of the final divorce decree 73 and abiding by the other requirements of Rule 5A:6 of the Rules of the Supreme Court of Virginia. 74 The Court of Appeals is not a trial court but is instead a reviewing authority. An appeal does afford an opportunity to put forth new witnesses and evidence at the appellate level. If the Court of Appeals determines that the trial court’s decision was plainly wrong or unsupported by the evidence or based on a mistake of law, it can reverse the trial court’s decision, and where necessary, send the matter back to the trial court for further proceedings. 75 The trial court’s findings are afforded great weight, and on appeal the evidence is considered in the light most favorable to the party prevailing in the trial court. 76 An appeal of a divorce case is rarely an easy endeavor. The cost of an appeal can be substantial and the party losing the appeal can be ordered to pay the other parties’ legal fees in addition to her own. 77 Thus, before going down the path of an appeal a party should seek the advice of an attorney experienced in handling appeals. If a party’s appeal to the Court of Appeals is unsuccessful, such party may file an appeal to the Supreme Court of Virginia within 30 days of the decision appealed from. 78 In some limited circumstances, an appeal can be heard by the Supreme Court of Virginia without first being decided by the Court of Appeals. 79 The Supreme Court of Virginia rejects the majority of the appeals that come to it. Appeals are rejected unless they have significant precedential value or involve a substantial constitutional question. 80
The divorce process ends when the judge signs the final decree of divorce, the 21-day time period the judge has to change or cancel the divorce order ends, and no appeal is allowed. The final decree of divorce is a court order that officially terminates the marriage.
The following documents are filed with the court along with the final decree of divorce:
Before getting remarried, parties should make sure they are divorced! As explained above, the divorce is not final until a judge signs the final decree of divorce and the 21-day time period the judge has to make changes passes. If an appeal is properly filed within the time limit (normally 30 days), the divorce is not final. In light of this, it is hard to imagine a situation where it would be wise to get remarried right away rather than wait more than 30 days after the date the judge signs the final decree of divorce. If objections are filed to the final decree of divorce and a bond is given pausing the enforcement of the decree, the trial court is required to enter an order prohibiting the parties from getting remarried pending the potential appeal of the case. 90
The consequences of getting remarried prior to the true finalization of a divorce can be disastrous. For one, getting remarried while still technically married to a living spouse is a criminal offense in Virginia punishable as a Class 4 felony. 91 A Class 4 felony may be punished by a prison sentence of 2-10 years and fine of up to $100,000. 92 Second, a bigamous marriage is considered absolutely void. 93 This means Virginia treats the marriage as not existing. No marital rights are acquired. 94 Individuals who think they are going to be entitled to spousal support and the equitable division of their partner’s retirement plan may be shocked to learn that they are entitled to nothing.
Action | Typical Time Period to Complete |
1. Establish a ground for divorce. | Fault Grounds Immediately for adultery and felony conviction and confinement cases. Immediately for a divorce from bed and board (legal separation) for cruelty or desertion; one year from the date of cruelty or desertion for an absolute divorce. No-Fault One year of separation, except the period is shortened to six months if there are no minor children and a complete written separation agreement is signed by both parties. |
2. Negotiate and sign a separation agreement where feasible. | Immediately at the time there is a ground for divorce or at any time during the divorce process. |
3. File the divorce. | Can be filed as soon as there is a ground for divorce (see action #1). |
4. Serve the divorce complaint. | Usually within 2 weeks from the date of filing, but it can take longer if there is difficulty serving the person. |
5. Respond to the divorce complaint (but go to action #8 if there is already a signed separation agreement). | 21 days from the date of service of the complaint. |
6. Conduct discovery. | 2 months or more from the service of the complaint, depending on the complexity of the case and whether depositions and experts are anticipated. |
7. Go to trial. | 6 months or more from the service of the complaint; for complex cases it can take more than a year from the date of service. |
8. Obtain a final decree of divorce. | Within 2 weeks of filing of the final decree in some Hampton Roads courts, but it can take more than 30 days if the clerk’s office demands corrections to the final decree or the other paperwork filed along with the final decree. |
9. Argue any appeals. | If an appeal is filed after entry of the final decree of divorce, the case could extend more than 6 months and potentially more than a year. |
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